Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Dealing with doubt

I received a message on Facebook the other day from a writer. Part of what it said follows:

You are really encouraging and inspiring. It takes discipline to write a novel and so many times I started and stopped, started and stopped, (listening to voices saying I can't do it, it's too hard, I'm not good enough, etc.) My goal in 2010 is to finish my draft and the arduous process of rewriting, etc.
I wrote back to tell this writer that I still hear those voices. I thought I would share here what I told her:

You know what's funny is that people think because I'm published I don't hear those voices. Not true! Even with 2 novels under my belt while I'm looking at my current work in progress I'm hearing all that same stuff about how I'm not good enough. I'm not disciplined enough. It's too hard. I've gotten myself in over my head. I'm not talented enough. The trick is to keep going any way. My tips for coping with those voices are praying, crying and listening to uplifting music to pump myself up before I start work. Jill Scott's song "Try" is a good one.
That got me thinking. "Try" isn't the only song I listen to. I posted some suggestions a few years ago. Here's a few new additions I've added.


"They said no you can't. We said yes we can."


"Keep your head up high. Believe in you, believe in me."



"I don't worry cause everything's gonna be alright."


"Well let the sun shine on your face And don’t let your life go to waste"


"I'm ready to go right now!"

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Alicia Keys is a fan!

I just stumbled upon her talking about Orange Mint and Honey on her website! How cool is that?!!!! Join her community and see what she had to say! Here's part:

"First let me say, this is the reason I love to read. This book has so much character and a wealth of soul. I love a book that can take u through a person's insecurities, vulnerabilities, issues and life because we all go through it!I love Shay. U can immediately understand her. Her pain, her anger, her depression, her unresolve. I love how it opened up with her messy room and her talking to Nina Simone. I felt her loneliness, confusion and unrest.Taking the journey with her back to her mother's house made me feel a little scared for her. It's hard to forgive sometimes and as u can see she's not forgiving easily. And why should she???"

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Quote of the day

Just got a card from a writer-buddy with this great advice:

"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Happy Christmas Eve!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Bootleg eggnog latte recipe

I made this up yesterday and I'm really digging it. I don't think I've said here that I started Weight Watchers a couple months ago. I've lost 13 pounds so far. The eggnog latte at The Coffee Shop That Shall Not Be Named is 11 Weight Watchers points. For one grande! My drink is probably not even a full point since a whole cup of soy milk is 2 points.

It's not exactly the real thing, but it works for me. Here's the recipe:

strong coffee
generous splash soy milk (as much milk/cream as you may usually like in your coffee)
1 pk Splenda
dash cinnamon
dash nutmeg
splash vanilla extract
splash imitation rum extract

Tasty!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Encouragement from a fellow writer!

Some of my writer-buddies and I have been kind of blue lately. If you have too, read this from LaConnie Taylor-Jones:
Authors, we are sixteen days away from a New Year. Forget the challenges you grappled with in 2009. Instead, concentrate on the opportunities that await you in 2010. Wrap yourselves in your dreams. Constantly remind yourselves that you will not respond to failure. Continue to bob (adversity) and weave (the threads). In the end, a custom-designed quilt (your story) will emerge.
Go here to read the rest (and lots of other uplifting & interesting info. Blogging in Black is looking great lately!). It's balm for a writer's soul!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

How you like me now?

What do you think of the new template? Unfortunately, I lost a lot of links and stuff from my sidebar. But I like it. I like it so much I just might get back in the habit of blogging, instead of Tweeting and Facebooking!

Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 07, 2009

Welcome Wendy Nelson Tokunaga!



Feeling a little stressed or overwhelmed? The holidays will do that, won't they? Myself, I'm not doing much shopping or any traveling, so I'm not feeling really stressed. I am feeling a little...sad though. This time of year can be hard when you've had losses. I know I'm thinking of my mom, my grandfather, my Uncle Charles (who passed away this fall), and my cat Hazel who died 2 weeks ago. I'm also thinking of friendships that seems frayed right now.

And after Season 3 of "The Wire" (I'm behind, I know) just about sent me to bed for a week (talk about frayed friendships!) and "Everybody's Fine" made me cry all weekend, I don't want any more serious or sad fiction for a while.
As always, one of my girlfriends to the rescue! This time it's Wendy Nelson Tokunaga. Her second novel Love in Translation is out and it looks like just the kind of fun, light-hearted read I could use right now.
About the Book:
After receiving a puzzling phone call and a box full of mysteries, 33-year-old fledgling singer Celeste Duncan is off to Japan to search for a long, lost relative who could hold the key to the identity of the father she never knew. This overwhelming place where nothing is quite as it seems changes Celeste in ways she never expected, leading her to ask: What is the true meaning of family? And what does it mean to discover your own voice?

My Q&A with Wendy (she gives inspiration to aspiring authors!):


Q: What inspired Love in Translation? 
A: Many things. LOVE IN TRANSLATION is my cockeyed valentine to Japan, which is a place I’ve both loved and loathed, a place that has fueled both fascination and frustration. And it is also a place that has had a huge impact on my life and writing. I also wanted to explore what it means to be a gaijin (foreigner) in Japan and the benefits and downsides of that status and what happens when a gaijin sings in Japanese. I also am fascinated by the concept of the homestay, (something I never experienced), and how that would impact someone as an adult who grew up in foster homes and who never experienced a real family. 
Q: If you weren’t writing, what would you be doing instead?

A: I’d be singing. Before I started writing fiction I wrote songs, sang lead and played bass guitar in my own bands. Later on I got into singing Japanese karaoke. And further down the road I took voice lessons from a great Japanese jazz singer. I learned so much from her and was able to take my singing to a whole new level. I began to sing jazz standards with my husband accompanying me on keyboards. We play low-key venues once in a while but usually we just practice for fun at home.

Q: 
Who do you picture in your mind when you write?

A: I guess I picture the character, but not usually in a specific physical sense. I imagine his or her persona in some tangible way, which acts as a reference point to keep me going.

Q: What's been your biggest surprise about getting published?

A: I don’t know if it would be categorized as a surprise, but I think that something completely unexpected has been the experience of getting published at a time when everyone and their dog is predicting the imminent death of the book and the publishing industry as we know it. I find myself half the time scoffing at such news and the other half worrying about it.

Q: Is writing your main job? If not, what do you do for your real source of income and how does it impact your writing?

A: Writing is my main job, but I also do manuscript consulting to help novelists and memoirists get their books in shape to send out to agents or to help revise them when they’ve received nothing but rejections. This dovetails nicely with my own writing and I really enjoy reading other writers’ works and helping them make their stories the best that they can be.

Q: If you could ask any author (living or dead) any question what would it be?

A: I’d love to ask Mark Twain if he could meet me for dinner and share a good bottle of wine so I could soak up all his wit and knowledge. And I have read that he was quite the cat lover so I think that would make it even more fun.

Q: What's the main thing you hope people take away from Love in Translation?

A: That opening up to new experiences and even different cultures can enhance your life and make you discover things you never knew about yourself.

Q: Art or entertainment? Is one more valid or important than the other?

A: Both can be equally important. But definitions of “art” and “entertainment” are so subjective. I guess as writers we hope that our works fit into a nice combination of the two.


Friday, December 04, 2009

I'm a two-hit wonder!


From AALBC (where there's lots of good info and reviews on books!):

"Carleen Brice has returned to the literary scene with her second novel, Children of the Waters and she's making another huge splash in literary fiction. Her clear and compassionate writing voice has given way to a novel full of love, loss and family connections. It's the story of two sisters who were separated for many years due to deception and circumstance....


This story examines several themes; adoption and racial identity, family and reconnecting, opening up to change, accepting who you are and the importance of love between mothers, daughters and sisters. Brice was able to pull it all together in a novel where plot and characterization were fully developed to create a perfect pitch. Believable characters that the reader could empathize with and a very believable storyline made Children of the Waters a very enjoyable read. Carleen Brice proved with this novel that she is no "one hit wonder"."


Go here for the whole review (warning: lots of spoilers).